I speak out of experience when I say silence happens to be the one thing that is often misread. The aftermath of the bungle you ask? Oh, that's a different story altogether! So, I supposed I could make an attempt to help remove the misconceptions that arise.
There's this silence out of indignance or displeasure..something that's scores better than picking up an argument, or worse, a fight! Very obviously, occurs when something isn't acceptable to one, while it could be to the other. What is it about a silent protest that gives an idea that it could be one out of arrogance? Be it on a small scale or a large one, silent protests are way better than violent ones, regardless of them being verbal or physical ones.
One more form is silence, whilst one is drowned in thought...those times when all that one prefers is to have pep talks with their own self, their conscience (trust me, they help a lot!) and there's a fair chance that people around you guesstimate you are depressed! Isn't a person entitled to some solitary time ever? While one's left without being bothered during other times, where's the necessity to interrupt during such times and end up making absurd conclusions?
There might be times when one prefers being silent out of sorrow (the reason's left to the viewers imagination) ...the times when one feels things couldn't turn any deal worse. All that one yearns for during those times is to be left alone for some time..that isn't an unreasonable thing to ask for, is it? So, where's the point in ignoring the "don’t interfere" sign that is so obvious and end up drawing conclusions about things that could possibly be unknown?
On a reminiscing note, there's this one other form of silence that dates back to our childhood, probably primary school days. There would have been such times when we would decide to be silent when there'd be no teacher in the class...and it was some sort of a telepathy, and the entire class would end up being silent for a change. How frustrating would it be when the teachers would suppose the reason for it was that we were guilty of some mischief!
A similar thing would happen back home, those occasions when siblings chose to hunch their backs over books, parents always surmised it had to have a motive behind..say, a broken lamp, a torn tablecloth, an so on., a sure consequence of sibling pettifoggery in the elders' absence. (Let's say that could have been the case sometimes, still, it isn't always the case, right? ;))
Apart from all the supposedly unpleasant things, I remember this thing mentioned in somebody's blog (if the person is a viewer of this post, my sincere apologies extended..in my defense, you don't own the copyrights to it :P). Anyway, it speaks about the beautiful song sung by Bryan Adams - "Please forgive me". The two shakes of silence just before he sings Please forgive me; I can't stop loving you ...that's absolutely entrancing! Each time you hear the song, you get transformed to a new place altogether.
(PS: The mention about the song had probably nothing to do with silence being misread, but these particular words were so beautiful that I couldn't hold myself back from publishing it here.)
That's about all I can recall at the moment. I hope this post is remembered when similar circumstances arise, and such things are avoided.
Also, can you people think of any such goof-ups? Feel free to leave a comment in any case.
trying times are no time to quit trying...
Thursday, November 09, 2006
Silence - isn't it often misread?
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hey there...
me again...been a long time i have read something like this...seems "strange" to me...n talking about silence...u know me this topic really doesn`t suit me...(P.S. i m of the other kind)...n lemme be frank to u...i think i can relate some of things written here "???"(i just dont know how to put it on paper)...so let me off the hook here...nyways keep up the good work...
@ Rajeev..
sure agree, silence isn't an usual thing for you..however, don't forget..the topic's not just about silence..it's about silence being misread, and that is what leads to various misconceptions, or so I felt. You just need to really think if you need to relate to the things given here (this is a very broad perspective, and everything need not be true for one person)
Also, I have never compelled you to comment..and hence, there arises no hook!
hi once again,
here v go again...n there is no reason to be all crapy again...i just threw my comments...n bout the hook thing...dont worry i`ll "straighten" things soon...
@ Rajeev..
there was no argument..as I always say, any kind of comments are always welcome (be it critisism or opinions). I just mentioned that there isn't a necessity that everyone must feel the same way I do, and hence, there arises no compulsion from my side.
hi..
this one reminds of the first few months of my engg life...horrible though they were!!...
gud job!!
Thanks Chaitra, glad atleast somebody agrees with me on this!
another bryan adams fan.
love that song :)
u keep writing babe.
who better to talk bout silence that sush...factually speaking her silence is always mis understood...wen she asked me to read it i didnt thing it would me that much but it did....hey sush u hav perfectly defined silence u hav all d qualities required to b a good author so i'll b looking 4ward to read all ur material...gr8 going...keep up d good work...
hey but a thousand words can be said with pin drop silence, dont ya think?
and since u like 'related songs' how 'bout "when you say nothing at all"
Now a smile! thats whats confusing. think u should do a post on smiles and their hidden meanings.
[glad u liked my snaps]
gw.
on a different note, where in india are u from?
Thanks Vinod...I'm glad my attempt made absolute sense to you too! (actually, very few people understand it in the right sense)
@golden words
I totally agree with you..there will definitely be loads of things I have missed..however, let me remind you..this post was just an attempt to bring out the ways in which certain forms of silence can be misread...Also, that was a good suggestion..I'll try to bring something about "smiles" sometime
Do i know you? Can you really 'know' someone??
Bangalore huh? which part, u working/studying/other-options??
[maybe i am a stocker, maybe i am not]
coffee thing was a misunderstanding, guess it was some other sushma's comment i read on a friends blog.
me again.
yup, i did mean stalker, guess the current stock market loss has taken away my spelling skills along with my money..
3rd year engineering, Aaa i remember those days, internals labs exams.. did my EEE, which one are u in? and which college?
[batch and college and with a name we'd narrow down the seach field]
me again.
The Stock Market's under decline again? Yeah, you're right...Engg.'s hectic sometimes..Right now, we have our sem end approaching, deadlines to meet, internals, exams, blah blah blah! I just try to fit in my interests amidst those.
For a person who talks a lot, I think I can appreciate what u r saying. I have experienced this a lot of times. Just curious, where did u come across my blog?
@tekurlife
I'm glad to see one more person agrees with my views! (trust me, it doesn't happen very often!)
hey, good one. Keep up the good job, hope to see many more interesting posts. Liked your manner of writing, specially.
Thanks a lot for the appreciation shown. I definitely will continue writing till either I lose the interest (which I hope never arises) or till time permits me to..(you don't need to worry 'bout that, I try to fit in my interests amidst all the other chores)
hey this is another good one.. keep writing :)
@ canary
Hey, thanks a lot...will sure get back as soon as exams are done with.
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@ Kaushik
your (er...) "silent" comment is well appreciated too! However, it'd be better if you expressed your comments in words.. else, there's a possibility that your silence could be misread! [;)]
demand for new posts..
[the person u aint chatting with ]
G.W
@ GW (anonymous??)
Demand will be actualized soon.
Hey.. thanks for dropping by.. where are the new posts? :)
@canary
There's a new post right after this one, and one more coming up soon enough, probably in a day or two
Interesting read.
@ anonymous
Thanks, glad you found it interesting.
Still, it'd be good if people don't leave comments as anonymous. No harm in revealing your name/nickname of sorts, right? Or one can always sign off with his/her name at the end of the anonymous comment.
hey this is too good to read perfect ideas about silence.......though i knew about silence i had never corelated this nicely anyway good work
@ ajay
Thanks a ton!
Well, call it a coincidence or not, I happen to associate a lot with this post too!
(apologies!!! stupid statement...Ofcourse I would...why else would I post it on my blog???):D
On a serious note, I feel silence happens to be that one thing that's probably misread the most number of times! (Trust me, I speak out of experience!)
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